Hello Friends,
Alex and I are happy to announce a new reading plan that will be launching very soon. The Marriage Toolkit: Parent Edition. Here at A Beautiful Adventure Marriage, we know every marriage is unique and must be given specific tools to be successful. Being married, when children are added into the mix, is beautiful, but it can be a bumpy ride. We wanted to create something specifically for parents so we reached out to Ashley and Tylar Burgess about partnering with us on this project and they agreed.
Ashley and Tylar Burgess are an amazing couple who after 23 years of being together, are not only happy but are raising three amazing young men. Be sure to read “Stories: Meet the Burgess Family” to learn more about them. Below you will find a sample of what this reading plan has to offer. We know you are going to benefit greatly from the wisdom of this family.
Tool #1: Love
As a married couple of 19 years with 3 teenagers, we have learned a lot. We’re not your typical family. We probably say “I love you” more than most. In fact, if we had a penny for every time that phrase has been used in our house, we’d all be millionaires by now, individually. Make no mistake, we truly mean it every time we say it because we realized early on in parenthood that love would be the most important tool to use when raising children.
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. 1 Corinthians 13:7
Since God is the author of love and is actually Himself love, He will be the greatest source of strength in this area. Your kids can pick up on how to love someone from a lot of different sources these days, but wouldn’t the best source be from watching you love each other?
When time gets scarce and precious and everyone has a different schedule that has to be completed on the same day, keeping God first should still be the top priority. Some great ways to love on God are through worship, prayer, and reading His word. Although it’s sometimes hard to do these things together, it’s important that we each try to make our own time for it every day. When you come back together at the end of the day and you’ve not taken the time to love on God, it’s sometimes harder to love on each other.
Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Romans 12:9
When modeling love with your spouse, don’t save all the sweet words for when you’re alone. Let your kids see how much you love each other, keeping it age appropriate, because you’re the best example they have for learning how to treat their spouse. Make every teachable moment count. Even when you’re out and about, make sure you’re still showing your children how you respect and care for each other. If you’re showing them what true love looks like, they won’t be so quick to jump at what the world tells them love is. Show them that love is more than a word, but a collection of thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Three things will last forever – faith, hope, and love – and the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13
Start Today
This is my command: Love each other John 15:17
Starting today, make sure you’re spending daily time with the Author of love. As you make spending time with God a daily practice, take time to tell your spouse and kids “I love you”, but make this more than just words, show them your love. Learn their love language and practice it daily.
Launch Date Coming Soon
We hope you enjoyed reading day one of this plan. It will be going live on YouVersion very soon. You will also be able to find it here on our website as soon as it becomes available. We will be announcing the launch date on all our social media platforms, so stay tuned!
Remember you can do this!
We are praying for you!