Marriage Advice for 2020

Hello Friends 2019 is officially over! Alex and I are very excited about the new year and we hope you are as well! As we were talking about this last video and blog for 2019, we wanted it to be something special, but we also wanted it to be something that would help you going […]

Embrace Endurance

Hello Friends, The skyline of St. Louis was a beautiful sight. When Alex and I and the McCalls finally saw the buildings, we knew the long haul was over. We knew we were almost to our final destination. It had been a long 9 days and an even longer last few hours, but we were […]

Sex and Marriage

Hello Friends, The “S” Word Several years ago, Alex and I were at a family gathering. One of our cousins was telling us a story about their son who was very young at the time. Something had happened and the son was upset with his parents. In the midst of his frustration, he looked at […]

‘Tis the Season to be Grateful

Hello Friends, I hope that you are enjoying our new website. We are loving it and can not wait to utilize all it has to offer. You probably have noticed our book and podcast page. We are excited about these two additions to our ministry. The book is at the publisher now, and we are […]

Embrace the “Otherness”

Hello Friends! Alex and I had so much fun celebrating ABA’s first birthday and giving away the 31-day marriage challenge books, “Husband in Pursuit and Wife in Pursuit”, from Fierce Marriage. The Lord has been so good to us with this ministry. We are growing and excited. If you are reading this you also know […]

Margin in Marriage

Hello Friends, If we were standing face to face and I was to ask you how your week had been what would your answer be? If I had to guess I would assume your answer would be summed up in one word, BUSY. I have noticed that anytime someone asks me about my day or […]

Right Does Not Always Equal Easy

Hello Friends, There is a lie floating around out there that I believe a lot of people (Christian and Non-Christian alike) are buying into. This particular lie is causing a lot of problems in marriages! People who are buying into this lie are either~ Getting divorced OR  Refusing to get divorced but genuinely believe they […]

The Promise Still Stands

Hello Friends, I was doing a little research the other day because I was curious about what the current divorce rate was in the United States. I found what I was looking for but in the process, I also found ads for a 139.00 dollar divorce, a DIY divorce form (what the heck), a link […]

The Dangers of Running on Empty

Hello Friends, On our last blog, we talked about selfishness and how when left unchecked it can and does destroy relationships.  I briefly touched on the fact that we can not expect our spouses to meet every single one of our needs. They were not created to do that and it is literally impossible for any […]

The Relationship Killer

Hello Friends, What if I told you there was something that could completely ruin your marriage? Something that has caused several marriages to fail already. You would want to know what it is, right? You would want to make sure that you never did it. Well, what if I told you that you are probably […]